Tuesday, 28 April 2015

Being True With Allah

I Being True With Allah 





Author: ‘Abdullah ‘Azzam | Pages: 20 | Size: 1 MB
By the martyred Imam ‘Abdullah ‘Azzam (May Allah have Mercy upon him). “…the biggest problem facing Islam today is the lack of the sincere and truthful amongst those who are working for Allah, except for those few hidden, pious, and pure people who were made for leading nations, and were made for navigating the ship…”. Translated by Abu Sabaya.

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"Every innate nature and heart loves to return to the fitrah that Allāh has fashioned it upon."
11 ‘Tafsīr al-Baghawī(4/369), and he also said: “If an action is done sincerely but incorrectly, it will not be accepted. If it is done correctly but insincerely, it will not be accepted. So, it will not be accepted until it is done sincerely and correctly.” [‘Jāmi’ al-‘Ulūm wal-Hikam’; 1/72] 
"So, evil is not capable of going along with the human fitrah, and it is not capable of spreading its roots into the human heart. It does not have any roots in the depths of the human fitrah. "
)صلى االله علیھ وسلم( As in the hadīth of Abū Dharr al-Ghifārī, where he said: “My close friend 17 ordered me with seven things: to love the poor and to be close to them; to look to those who are less than me and not to those who are above me; to maintain the ties of kinship even if they break them off; to not ask anyone for anything; to say the truth even if it is unpleasant; to not fear the blame of the blamers instead of Allāh; and to increase in saying ‘there is no might nor power except with Allāh,’ as it is from the treasures that are underneath the Throne.” 
3 He is referring here to a hadīth reported by Ibn Mājah (3989) with the wording: “Verily, Allāh Loves the pure, pious, and hidden people who, if they are present, are unnoticed, and if they are absent, are not missed.” This hadīth is weak due to the presence of ‘Abdullāh bin Lahī’ah in its chain (see ‘as-Silsilah ad-Da’īfah’; # 2975). However, there is an authentic wording in ‘Sahīh Muslim’ (2965): “Verily, Allāh Loves the slave who is pious, self-sufficient, and hidden.”
“The first who will be consumed by the Fire on the Day of Judgment will be three: a scholar, a Mujāhid, and a generous donator. As for the scholar, Allāh will bring him and ask him: ‘What did you do in the dunyā?’ So, he will say: ‘I acquired knowledge for Your Sake, and I spread it seeking Your Pleasure.’ So, it will be said to him: ‘You lied. You learned so that you would be referred to as a scholar, and it was done, and you have obtained your reward in the dunyā.’ Then, he will be ordered thrown into Hell. Then, the donator will be brought, and Allāh will ask him: ‘What did you do in the dunyā?’ He will say: ‘I acquired wealth from permissible means, and I donated it for Your Sake.’ It will be said to him: ‘You lied. You donated your money so that it would be said that you are generous, and it was done, and you have had your reward in the dunyā.’ Then, he will be ordered thrown into Hell. And the third...’What did you do?’ ‘I fought in Your Cause until I was killed.’ ‘You lied. You fought so that you would be referred to as a brave man, and it was done, and you took your reward in the dunyā.’ Then, he will be ordered thrown into Hell.” 




Monday, 27 April 2015

the Muslim wife



I think this is a beneficial advice. The sister who answered it is a student of Sh Hassan Al Banna in Egypt:

Assalamu alaikum 

May Allah grant you all the best of this world and Hereafter for your efforts . What specific advice would you give to sisters wishing to take the path of seeking knowledge , with the aim of becoming students of knowledge in shaa Allah ?
- As women , is there anything particular you can advise ?
 - What are the hurdles/ obsticles that women may face and how to get over them ? 
-What are some things that would assist a sister in this path ?
 - Any particular advice for those who are young and not married yet , who have this intention of becoming students of knowledge , especially those living in the west ? Jazaakillaahu khayr for your time 

.Question:I would like to know your advice for the Muslimah married and with children who wants to study Islam properly and dreams to be a student of knowledge.

Zaynab-el-kateb :Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu

First of all I ask Allah to grant you knowledge about Him and about Islam.Now you need to set your priorities as a Muslim married woman. These priorities are set by Islaam.‎((قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: إِذَا صَلَّتْ الْمَرْأَةُ خَمْسَهَا، وَصَامَتْ شَهْرَهَا، وَحَفِظَتْ فَرْجَهَا، وَأَطَاعَتْ زَوْجَهَا, قِيلَ لَهَا: ادْخُلِي مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ شِئْتِ) The Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said: if the woman prays her five prayers, and fasts her month (Ramadhan), and protects her private parts and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: enter to the Paradise from any door that you wish

Here are the priorities:

- performing the pillars of Islaam
- obeying your husband and being a good wife to him and a good mother to your children.So, first you need to make sure that you are doing these obligatory priorities, in addition to the priority of knowing the basics of the religion which you need to correct your Tawheed and correct your worships. If you completed these priorities and you still have spare time then you can start seeking knowledge, without affecting your duties as a wife and a mother. You will need to invest your own free time. For example you can learn from fajr till the time of work and school, or 2 hours before fajr, or while  they are in school.

What to start with:

1- Learning Arabic
2- memorizing quran, at least the  جزء عم  juz ‘ammah to be able to pray with it.
3- Reading and understanding Tafseer of Quran.
4-Learn about Allah Perfect Names
5- learn Aqeedah, you can start by the explanation of Thalathat Usool, then explanation of Tawheed book
6- learn the explanation of the 40 nawaweya ahadeeth.
7-learn Fiqh related to acts of worship, prayers, purification, fasting, zakah 
8- when you learn and understand and practice what you learned, start teaching people around you.This is what is needed from us as women to be knowledgeable with our religion and to worship Allah knowing what pleases Him.Make sure that you always ask Allah's aid to grant you knowledge and understanding.

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Winning the Heart of your Husband





Author: Ibraahim ibn Saaleh al-Mahmud | Pages: 28 | Size: 1 MB
Happiness is a feeling that resides in the heart. It is characterized by peace of mind, tranquility, a sense of well-being, and a relaxed disposition. It comes as a result of proper behavior, both inward and outward, and is inspired by strong faith. This is attested to by the Qur’ân and Sunnah. Allah says: Happy marriages are fundamental to a stable family and for personal well being. This book is specifically written for women so that inshallah they can have succesful marriages.

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Watch "The Fiqh Of Love (Part 1) | Marriage 101 | Dr. Muhammad Salah" on YouTube - https://youtu.be/rAcDGrRQxfY

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The Proper Care and Feeding of the Husband: it’s not an Islamic book, it’s written by an American radio talk show host/psychotherapist, Dr Laura Schlessinger.


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 ‘The 5 Love Languages, the secret to love that lasts’ by Gary Chapman

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Tawheed




http://www.greenlanemasjid.org/uploads/resources/publications/kitab-al-tawhhed.pdf

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Kitab At Tawheed explainded in English by Shaikh Salim Al-Amry:
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Life of Muhammad ibn AdbulWahhaab in Hungarian by H:
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